Dating might be a tough and challenging thing for a BBW, particularly if you lack of confidence and you are not good at curvy dating. There are a lot of difficulties not only your large shape but also society might hold you back too. Chubby women usually need a lot of patience and determination while searching for a mate and dating. We have list some of the common problems which plus size women might happen while dating.
1.Looking for partner
For most of the BBWs, it seems to very difficult to find a partner and get into a relationship. It’s well known that most men prefer to date skinny women looking like models directly from a catwalk. Besides, there are no obvious signs the man dates you is either interested in you or just like BBWs. In fact, it’s also a difficult task to hang out in public places like coffee shop and restaurant to look for a partner. Sometimes, you may be misunderstood by a man directly when you come to his side and try to chat with him. In either case, find a partner might be a very frustrating thing and needs to take a lot of patience and energy.
2.Proper and gorgeous clothes
When talking about BBW dating, clothes is another difficult and important issue. To BBWs, generous, elegant and sexy look is highly recommended when you are heading to a date. However, plus size women have a serious problem with dressing well because their shape and weight. Because not all sexy and generous clothes had been designed for chubby women. Some chubby women are even yearning for looking gorgeous and try to wear something they fell uncomfortable with. The most common trick they do is wearing huge size high heels to make hips and legs look thinner. Another good trick is wearing mini black dress, because black clothes makes body look slimmer.
3.Meeting people in public places
Except for all the things related to find an ideal partner, to meet and chat people in public places might be a little uncomfortable as well. Based on that, you might not be able to choose proper time for catching some cute and sexy men to date at an upscale place. If you go early, all attractive men might not appear yet. If you go there too late, all sexy men might have gone home with other female partner already.
4.Put up with some jokes
BBWs usually have a good sense of humor so that they always can live up the atmosphere of the party. Although they are cheerful and optimistic, they dislike and even hate jokes about themselves and their weight. Sadly, they require to play it cool and pretend to don’t care these jokes about their shape. While it makes them feel bad inside, they also try to make people like their easy-going personalities.
As mentioned above, BBWs often encounter these common problems while looking for a partner. Hopefully, if you are a chubby woman and remember that all the misfortunes will dismiss after you find your ideal soul mate. Finally, everything will be fine.