How to choose a couple?
This is maybe the first question you think about. If you are a swinger single, how to choose a swinger couple to have threesome with? Choosing the right swinger couple can ensure the quality of your threesome experience. If you have no idea about it, you can download some threesome apps, such as 3rder, tinder, etc. Make sure you are choosing both of them, not just one of them. Besides, if you are matched, make sure to talk to them both. It would be a smart move to have a gathering in public before having a threesome hookup. If you are going to choose one couple you knew, maybe you should do some evaluation first. Is their relationship steady? Is there cheating between them? Have you seen them get jealous of each other? Make sure you can handle the situation if there is anything go wrong.
Have a discussion beforehand
Have a pre-discussion beforehand is very necessary. You can invite them for a dinner first. Sometimes, their profile does not always match with their actual appearance. Are they really hot? Are they experienced in this? Did they ask you what your preferences are? Is there anything they like about you? In a threesome, everyone has equal rights and opportunity to talk about their preferences and boundaries. If you have any expectation about it, please do let them know. You also want to make sure your position in this threesome party. You are not a tool for them. If they plan to treat you like one, feel free to get out of it. You can also ask what their expectations are. Sometimes, find out their expectations first could double the pleasure in a threesome dating. Make sure you like them all. Try to establish a balanced dynamic between you and them. For safety reasons, you also need to talk about condoms and make sure everyone is free from any STD.
Your pleasure is just as vital as theirs
Just like I mentioned above, you are not their tool. The purpose of you having threesome is having fun for yourself, not for their service. For the third person, threesome can easily become the main stage for the couple, since they already have an advantage on numbers. All three persons are supposed to have fun together, unless you are paid for it. They should take care of your desire and needs just as you would do to them. If you found that they are using you like a tool, regardless of your preference and boundaries, you can directly stop and leave.
These are three tips for the third person on how to have a threesome. I noticed that there are many articles for swinger couples, while fewer for the third. I think the role of the third in a threesome is just as important as that of the couple. I hope you have fun in threesome hookup.